Racy Talk: Kids Are Listening (and Learning)
The following was originally posted on 05/02/09; seems to bear repeating today.
I'm sorry for some of the movies I have let my children watch. I have spent a lifetime becoming anesthetized to violence and profanity in movies; I can't allow that numbness, however, to color my judgement of the movies I allow my minor children to watch.
But I have.
While condemning others for allowing their children to view movies I don't think are appropriate, I have been guilty of the same behavior; different movies, same lapse in judgment.
Girls, I'm sorry for allowing your minds to take on a perverse edge. I'm sorry that you have witnessed events on the screen that no child, and few adults, should "enjoy". I'm sorry for the bad dreams that so often accompanied your sleep. I'm sorry for disturbing your precious minds.
Rom 1:28-32 "And because they did not think it worthwhile to have God in their knowledge, God delivered them over to a worthless mind to do what is morally wrong. They are filled with all unrighteousness, evil, greed, and wickedness. They are full of envy, murder, disputes, deceit, and malice. They are gossips, slanderers, God-haters, arrogant, proud, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to parents, undiscerning, untrustworthy, unloving, and unmerciful. Although they know full well God's just sentence--that those who practice such things deserve to die--they not only do them, but even applaud others who practice them."
All of these things I have allowed my children to watch from time to time. All of these things, I have allowed my children to "applaud others who practice them.".
I ask God to forgive me for my sin of accepting a "worthless mind" that does not belong with a follower of the Lord Jesus. I ask my children for forgiveness in allowing them to be corrupted at my hand. I ask my wife for forgiveness in leading her astray and in not standing against evil in my home.
I have just read the review of X-Men Origins: Wolverine, a movie I was looking forward to watching, a sequel to the X-Men movies I have enjoyed. I had heard a reviewer on the radio the other day compare this movie to the recent Dark Knight, a movie I rented for my daughter, and was stunned at his comparison of violence and language. Upon reading his review, I'm no longer ready to watch this new film and am disgusted that I allowed my baby girl to watch the other. It was not so long ago that I never allowed my girls to watch anything without my wife or I pre-viewing it for them and making a judgement based upon biblical standards. I can not lay claim to that standard in the recent past. I have reviewed in my mind some of the movies and shows I have allowed the girls, myself and my wife to watch, and I am ashamed.
I can't erase the scenes played out before my children's eyes or the words spoken into their ears, but I can ask God for His mercy on them and make sure that I do not engage in such unrighteous stupidity in the future.